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FOCA: The Exclusive Family Petro Marketer Community
Join the gathering of family petro businesses, large and small,
from across the US so you can finish strong in 2020.

What You Get From FOCA

FOCA 2020 Agenda

Who Should Attend FOCA

September 22-24, 2020


Focus On Competitive Advantage (FOCA) is THE industry leading event for family-owned Petro companies.  Business-savvy companies will be in attendance to learn Meridian’s proven methods to grow faster AND smarter, create a thriving company culture, boost efficiency, expand and diversify into new revenue streams, and ultimately increase profits.

FOCA 2019

FOCA's Outcomes For Your Business

  • Focus and Alignment

    Unite your team in a common purpose

  • Thriving Petro Company

    Operate like a well-oiled, money-making machine

  • Guaranteed Results

    $100,000 in take-aways or your money back

What Past FOCA Attendees Say

FOCA Delivers What Decades Old Petro Business Still Need To Know

Some Petro Businesses will finish on Top in 2020. FOCA has all the insights to make it happen for you. Experience for yourself how companies even 100 years in business learn new ways to thrive from Meridian’s insights and knowledge of multi-generational companies. FOCA pays for itself typically with a 10x and more ROI.

Expect to Gain Valuable Knowledge on These Topics and More

  • Meridian Method of Prioritization
  • Meridian Method of Delegation
  • Meridian Method of Accountability
  • High Impact Breakthrough Workshops on Marketing and Sales, Leader Development

Who is FOCA For?

Owners, top leaders, next-gens, CFOs, managers and division leaders, sales leaders, all come to FOCA.

Is FOCA Worth It?

Former attendees tell us each year that FOCA pays for itself, with ROI (Return On Investment) of 10x or more.

Can a Few Days Really Grow My Business?

YES. This is an action-packed 3 days that gives you a plan and the tools to implement it.

Is Family Invited?

Yes! Often marketers bring their family to enjoy the hotel while they work.

FOCA 2020 Agenda

An  Action-Packed Three Days

Focus On Competitive Advantage is an action-packed three days that leaves you with a plan and the tools to implement it. Our goal is for you to leave with REAL solutions that you can act on immediately.

Agenda Highlights Include:

Special guest speaker, Heather Howell, Global Director of Innovation, Jack Daniels Brands

Industry Outlook with Betsi Bixby

John Ayo – Wellness in the Storm

A FOCA Exclusive – Success Huddles

Learn from and connect with your peers each day in our Success Huddles where we evaluate and discuss new methods and ideas and how t o implement them to streamline operations, accelerate growth, and create more profitability.

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FOCA 2020 Agenda


September 22

7:30 Registration and Full Buffet Breakfast

8:00 Family Business Introductions

8:45 Industry Outlook with Betsi Bixby

9:30 Refreshment Break

10:00 Success Huddle #1

11:00 Success Huddle #2

12:00 Lunch Break

1:00 Project Management Speaker

2:30 Refreshment Break

3:00 Success Huddle #3

4:00 John Ayo – Wellness in the Storm

5:00 Wrap Up Day One

5:30 Dinner and Entertainment (Onsite)

9:00 Event / Bar Closes

September 23

7:30 Full Buffet Breakfast

8:00 Special Speaker

9:00 Success Huddle #4

10:00 Refreshment Break

10:30 Meridian Method of Prioritization

11:00 Meridian Method of Delegation

12:00 Lunch Break

1:00 Meridian Method of Accountability

2:00  Refreshment Break

2:30 High Impact Breakthrough Workshops

Marketing and Sales, Leader Development

4:30 Take-aways

5:00 Wrap Up Day Two

6:30 Dinner and Special Activity

September 24

7:30 Full Buffet Breakfast

8:00 Action Planning

10:00 Refreshment Break

10:30 Make It Happen

12:00 FOCA 2020 Concludes

Meet Our Speakers

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Betsi Bixby

Founder of Meridian

Turning Your Ideas Into Powerful Actions To Propel Your Business

Betsi has been working with petro marketers for over three decades, bringing a wealth of knowledge and strategic experience that helps petro companies grow and thrive.  As a former bank commercial lending executive, she’s the founder of Meridian, and has developed processes, The Meridian Method systems that have benefited over 4,500 marketers, covering a variety of critical areas, from cash flow, to increasing volume, to succession and leaving a legacy. 

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Tom Otley

Director of Strategic Growth

Tom brings more than 30 years of executive experience to the Meridian team having served as a member of the Senior Leadership Team of one of the world’s largest global training organizations, including Vice President of Learning at John Maxwell Company, and Senior Vice President at Dale Carnegie Training. He also has significant Global HR experience having lived in Israel and Egypt while providing leadership to the Camp David Peacekeeping Forces. Tom is spearheading Meridian’s Family Business Specialist development, Meridian’s first project outside the petro industry. He lives with his bride, Mary Ann, and their three children: Tommy, Johnny, and Iris in Johns Creek, GA.

Lesley Merlino

Family Business Specialist

With 20+ years leadership experience, Lesley’s expertise in sales management, B2C sales, and retail operations makes her a powerful voice on Meridian’s leadership team.  Within the Telecommunications Industry, Lesley led teams in B2C residential sales, providing great relevance to the heating oil and propane sectors.  Earlier in her career, her franchised food service as part of a family-owned C-Store provided solid experience and deep understanding of high quality retail operations.  Within the Insurance Industry, Lesley led sales teams, coaching people to higher levels of performance for over 15 years.  Lesley’s solid track record in leading teams, analyzing client needs, recommending solutions and serving customers created a natural fit for her executive leadership at Meridian.  Lesley and her husband, Adam, and their four children live in Round Rock, TX. In Lesley’s spare time, she volunteers at her children’s’ school, leads Bible School for children at their church, and is the videographer for family fishing trips

Dates and Location

Tuesday, September 22, 2020 (starts with informal gathering) to Thursday, September 24, 2020

Marriott Dallas Las Colinas
223 West Las Colinas Blvd, Irving, TX

Hotel Reservations

This Year’s FOCA event is being held at the Marriott Dallas Las Colinas in Irving, TX.  With convenient access to and from DFW and Love Field airports.

We’ve secured a discounted group rate for FOCA attendees!  After completing registration, you will receive an email with all the details for booking your discounted room.

In the meantime, you can check out the accommodations by clicking here!

Hotel Amenities

Come early or stay late to enjoy all the area has to offer!

Hotel amenities include:

Walking distance to great dining and shopping

Swimming pool

Fitness center

Beautiful outdoor terrace

Contemporary rooms with lake views


Focus On Competitive Advantage is designed for teams to attend. As each team member becomes equipped to boost their individual performance, your entire business will thrive

The more team members in attendance, the more value you will receive.

One Team Member

$4,495 Per Person

Two Team Members

$3,495 Per Person

Three Team Members

$2,995 Per Person

Tickets include three full days of speaker presentations, all meals and snacks, networking opportunities, swag, conference notes, and full access to our event resource site.


Meridian Associates is a team of dedicated professional petro specialist with extensive experience providing valuable industry knowledge and advice to petroleum-based businesses, helping them grow and expand their market share through coaching, education, valuations, advisory services and more.


Can My Family Come?

While FOCA itself is designed for those 21 and up, the hotel has options for family and kids, and the surrounding area is fun to explore. We love families!

How Do I Get There?

The hotel has easy access from both DFW and Dallas Love airports. There are car/van services offered by local transport companies at reasonable rates. Your registration email confirmation will include options.

Is There A Dress Code?

We suggest resort casual keeping hotel air conditioning in mind. Layers are good!

Will My Competitors Be There?

FOCA is a high-level, sought after Petro industry event. Business savvy companies, which could include your competitors, will be in attendance. You will not want to miss out on the knowledge and competitive advantage tactics presented at FOCA. But don’t worry, we will work to ensure you’re never in a compromising situation with your direct competition.

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